The Taxi Light Theory, Right Person Wrong Time & Why Mr. Big's "I Miss You" Is Just Your Ego Getting a Cookie — S3E8 Solo Episode
About This Episode
In Season 3 episode eight of And Just Like That… We Found Therapy, host Isabel MV goes solo to unpack Sex and the City's "The Big Time." It's the episode where Mr. Big shows up at Carrie's door while Aidan is out getting coffee filters, Miranda and Steve break up over a puppy and an honest conversation about what's not enough, Charlotte withholds sex from Trey because she's convinced he's the one, and Samantha receives a menopause catalogue in the post and takes it as a personal attack.
What This Episode Covers
The radar theory: why men have an uncanny ability to resurface the moment you start moving on — and what it actually means when they do
Men always come back, but it may not mean what we want it to mean: using that as a mantra instead of a reason to wait
Why Carrie saying "go home to your wife" instead of "get away from my door" reveals everything about what she really wants from Big
The taxi light theory: do men marry the love of their lives, or whoever they're with when the light turns green?
Can you be with the right person at the wrong time? Isabel's honest answer
How to know when there's not enough good stuff left in a relationship and it's time to walk away
Miranda and Steve: why a baby is never the answer to a relationship that already isn't working
The timeline for knowing if someone is actually the one — what the first two weeks can and cannot tell you
Why good couples aren't couples that don't fight — they're couples who know how to fight well
Charlotte withholding sex until marriage: why physical intimacy is one of the most important things to navigate before you commit
Samantha and the fear of aging: what Isabel's older friends have taught her about growing into yourself
Kegel exercises: a public service announcement
Key Takeaways
You don't find the one in a moment. You recognise them over time.
Anything that feels like certainty before six months might be projection, chemistry or mistaking emotional intensity for love.
What is meant for you won't miss you — and sometimes the right person at the wrong time is the universe protecting you.
Transcript
Welcome back, Boundary Babes. We are back with another episode of And Just Like That We Found Therapy.
I am doing a solo episode today because I was supposed to have a big time guest, wink, wink, to today's episode, but as fate were to have it, I am supposed to do this episode solo.
The revis side was down, its server was down the day that we were supposed to record. We tried to reschedule in time for this episode, but alas, it didn't work out. But don't worry, she'll be back for a later episode.
But I'm super excited to be alone with you today and with my soundboard, which I intend to try and use more and more. I'm not sure that's the one that I wanted to press, but you know, whatever.
Today we are here to discuss season three, episode eight of Sex and the City, The Big Time. And it's all about timing, fate, the right person at the wrong time, and the taxi light theory.
So if you are currently torturing yourself, waiting for a guy, waiting for him to like realize that you're the one, waiting for him to get that job, waiting for him to get that promotion, waiting for him to make that move, this episode is for you.
Because I don't think he's for you. But we're going to break it up, because that's what we do in this show. You know, I break it up for you to give you the theory, give you the notes.
You're more than welcome to ignore them. But just in case, you want to know what all the years of therapy and all the episodes that I've done with therapists on this podcast have brought to me, this is for you.
So the girls have four storylines all around timing. Charlotte is enjoying her time with Trey, who she met in the last episode, and she's trying to defend that she's met the one, even though they've been dating for two weeks.
Miranda and Steve are trying to align two separate timelines around some talk around a baby. Samantha is facing a battle with aging, and our girl, or my girl, Carrie, is wrestling with her two dream men, coming and going in her life and in her heart.
2:25
Carrieʼs Love Dilemma
Guess who we are gonna start with this episode? We're gonna start with my girl Carrie. Yes, cause she's my girl.
Anyway, turn the volume up if, as mentioned earlier, you are currently thinking that the guy that broke your heart, treated you not so well for years, is now coming around because the timing is gonna be right.
And you think that this is the time that he's gonna show up for you, turn the volume up, cause this is for you.
And my first question to the void with this is like, what is it about some guys that they seem to have a radar that goes off whenever you start to move on? And they're like, you know what?
It's time to reach out and it's time to give them a little breadcrumb for me to just mess with their head, pretend that I'm gonna show up, but then not really show up. And then they come back. I don't know how they do it, but they do it.
And I think this is exactly what happens because my girl Carrie has a party in a boat for the launch of a magazine named Gab. And she tries to convince Aiden to go with her, but that's so not his scene.
And I think that shows the kind of relationship that he is used to leading. He's a securely attached man. He doesn't need to do whatever his girlfriend is doing all the time or writing her coattails all the time.
He's like, you know what, you go, you have fun, you do your thing, and then, you know, I'll be waiting for you back home because she jokes that she is rumored to be easy. Sorry, I really like my soundboard.
Carrie is at the boat party, and she brings Charlotte and Trey as her plus one and two. And in the middle of this party, she runs into Mr. Big twice.
And it's amazing how much the writers can get in 20 minutes. And in this scene that I guess was maximum three minutes, all the little micro-interactions that happen between Mr. Big and Carrie are so telling.
So from my perspective, and I think Chris Knopf does a wonderful job at being Mr. Big, you can tell that he's excited about being in that boat party with Carrie. I think he's excited about the fact that Natasha missed the boat.
And when they first run into each other, Carrie's getting a cheese ball or something, which conveniently lets her gather herself before she faces her ex.
And I think it's so interesting because she says like, Oh my God, I hadn't seen Charlotte so happy in years, and she hadn't met the guy for five minutes. And then I run into a guy with whom I was happy for five minutes.
So here I think that we try to see a side of Carrie that is trying to, you know, learn her lesson, see Big for what he is and what he was, a guy that never offered anything to her and that made her happy for five minutes.
And they have this really cordial hello where he's like, Oh, you know, I thought that I'd run into you here. And she's like, Oh, okay, really? And this is one in my mind.
I'm thinking like, Oh, Mr. Big obviously misses her because once he got married, she was like, you know what? Fine, I'll take a step back.
And now he misses her. He's wondering where she is because he got used to having access to her all the time. So this is the first sign of the radar going off.
He goes and says like, Oh, you know, I thought I ran into you here and I thought I'd see you here. She's like, Oh, really? And then she kind of like says, Oh, where's Natasha?
And he says, Well, she lost the boat. And I think, you know, he kind of looks excited about that because he could have gotten off if he thought that Natasha was not going, which I'm guessing is the whole reason why he's at that party.
And he just stayed because he thought that Carrie was there. And if you had had anything that remotely resembles this, let me tell you that that is very low effort. I'm going to give you what I think you want to get what I want from Mr.
Big. Then Carrie is very gracious and she's like, Well, it was nice running into you. And then she leaves.
He chases after her and he's like, what was that? Can we have a conversation anymore? And Carrie is just like, I don't know, can we?
Like, I think he keeps trying to find again that connection that they had when they used to go dating because he cannot have enough of a backbone to understand that just because it's not convenient to him doesn't mean that it's not what's right for
Carrie to not have that kind of banter back and forth connection or whatever you want to call it. And then he makes a joke like, Oh, pass on the message around Brooklyn. There's going to be a mutiny. And you can see that it's kind of effortless.
Carrie laughs at the dumb joke because I guess that's like their little connection. And then he asks about her dating life, which again, is a very low effort to see where the stakes are, to see how available is the access that he used to have to her.
How close is that? And she kind of mentions, you know, yes, I'm seeing someone. He's perfect, but he's not here.
I wanted to spare him from, you know, being with all the media leeches and like the celebs, present company excluded. So again, you know, she's being coquettish and everything, but she draws a clear boundary.
And I think she kind of like graciously exits again after this second encounter. But I guess the writers want to show us. Big gets the itch for more like, okay, the axis that I thought was being taken away from me is really being taken away from me.
And Carrie goes back and, you know, she's thinking about what is the meaning of running into him. And that's the column of the week. Is life a succession of random events or is there really such a thing as fate?
And what did it mean that she run into Mr. Big? But she goes back to Aiden to get over her C-Big sickness.
And they seem to have a great relationship. They're coming back through the door. They're having a little flirty moment.
And then Carrie goes to, like, listen to her answering machine. And she hears Big's voice pop out. And she stops it before she can hear the entire message.
And Aiden says he's going to get some coffee filters. And as soon as he's gone, there's a knock on Carrie's door. She opens it and it's Mr.
Big. And he was like, oh, that was him, right? That was the perfect guy.
And she was like, yeah, and you have to go because he's going to be back soon. And he's just being very vague, but like so aggressively, like in the space and confused. And Carrie's like, what do you want?
And Mr. Big looks at her with a tortured look and says, I don't know. And then Carrie looks up to him with puppy eyes and says, go home to your wife.
And then Big, I'm sorry again, looking pathetic and tortured says, I'm so fucked up. And then Carrie says, no, go home. And like closes the door.
Then she listens to the rest of the message. And it plays, I miss you. I can't stop thinking about you.
There you have it.
Which is brutal.
Like if I put myself in Carrie's shoes, this is a very hard position to be in. Because at the end of the day, even if she's wouldn't be Carrie, which we all know she's problematic, whatever, whatever.
Like there is a big part of Carrie's ego that got hurt when she wasn't the chosen one. I love the end of Season 2, where she kind of asks him, why wasn't it me? And I don't think she ever got to answer that question.
Not from him, not from the world. She just tried to move on, do the right thing. But then her ego gets this cookie that is like, okay, now he's choosing you.
Everything that made you question that you weren't good enough, now he has the answers. Guess what? You might be.
But I think there's two things that I want to point out here. One, I want the record to show that as my girl Violet Benson from Daddy Issues says, men always come back. But it may not mean what we want it to mean.
I have used this as a creed or as a mantra in my head, sometimes to negotiate with a grief that comes with like maybe understanding that someone's not for us, they're ghosting us, they've disappeared, they're stop showing the same level of interest
that we wanted them or we were used for them to show on us. And sometimes I just think, you know what? He'll be back, so let it go. You don't have to reach again because they always come back.
And hopefully by the time they do, I've moved on, which is what Carrie hopefully should have done. But there's this other thing that made me pause for a second when Carrie says, go home to your wife. She does not mention Aiden.
She does not mention like, what the fuck are you doing here? Get the fuck out of my door. This is not what we're doing.
This is really fucked up. I don't want to see you buy. I'm very happy.
She kind of like does that dig, which is what shows me that this is part of her ego being like, oh, you chose her. You picked your beige bed. Now you go lying in, which shows that she's a deeply flawed human who is in and she's deeply insecure.
I think that in many ways, Mr. Big to her is like this unattainable guy that she hasn't sat down to think, like, what is it really that I want from him? What is it really that I picture our long-term values, goals, life look like?
She just wants him to say, like, you're good enough. And then I think, like, that's all she wants. And I think that's what her bringing it back to Natasha is like, oh, no, you chose her.
So go back to her now that you want me, rather than being like, what I want is not this meaning big. And finally, if we really look at the facts, Mr. Big is offering a whole lot of nothing.
And that's my opinion.
13:25
Mirandaʼs Relationship Crossroads
One of the other storylines is Miranda. In the last episode, we were kind of going into how much she loves what she has with Steve because they have real intimacy, because she's going through her laundry.
And then, you know, she finds the skit marks, which she was like, okay, maybe it's not intimacy, maybe it's a rut. But they kind of like brush it off.
Like, we are sold that up until last episode, Steve and Miranda were like hunky-dory, doing really well. But as it turns out, we get confirmation that no, it was a rut and it sucks.
And their storyline is Steve and Miranda having dinner, having ramen somewhere, and there's a baby crying in the background, and Miranda says, since when is it okay to bring a baby to a restaurant? And I'm sorry for my opinion, but I agree.
That's my opinion!
Sometimes it's really annoying, but I understand that French parenting is a thing, and I have a lot of friends with parents, with parents, with babies, and I'd rather see them with the baby, I guess.
But anyway, Steve is like, you know what, we should do it. We should have a baby. It'd be so fun, and he'd be so cute.
And I hate him in this scene because he's also getting ramen all over his, like, shirt. So in this episode, Steve is written to be very much the kid, and so Miranda steps into the mean mommy character.
But it sucks because it almost feels like, you know, when you have those cool friends when you're growing up, and some of them tend to have more lenient parents, and they would offer the craziest plans just so that you, the one with, like, the
right-head, screw it on your shoulders with a not-so-lenient parents, would say no, and then you're the party pooper. But, like, if you were to go, like, you know what? Yeah, let's jump off the bridge in the car that we borrowed from your parents.
They probably wouldn't go through with it. Like, Steve wouldn't, well, maybe Steve would go through with it because he didn't, he doesn't have to carry the baby, which is bullshit. But anyway, Miranda's like, nah, whatever.
They get into a bit of a tiff about it. I mean, it's like, can we just drop the subject? But this continues to be the threat through the relationship in this episode.
And then we see them in Miranda's apartment, which obviously she's bought through her tough work, working for a law firm where she is working really hard to get partner.
And as much as Steve mentions at some point in another episode that he does a lot of lawyer things for her, I've never seen him show any respect or offer her the right support for her to thrive for her job.
And Steve is watching Scooby-Doo while Miranda's trying to work in the living room. And she's like, oh, can you turn it down? And he's just joking about it.
Like, you know, you're gonna have to get used to a noisy house if we're gonna have a little one running around here soon enough. And Miranda turns into mean mommy. She's like, no, and I'm going to bed.
And when you come, turn off the lights, put a coaster under that glass. And like, you can see that the dynamic is quickly turning into Steve as a kid, Miranda as a party pooper and the mean mommy.
And they're not having any fun in that relationship whatsoever. But Steve tries to salvage this by calling Miranda at work and being like, meet me in like a Lexington and 40 or something like that. I think it'll help.
And he forces her to get a puppy at one of those puppy stores, I guess, you know, still legal to have puppies in a play den, which I always loved to see as a kid, but it's so cruel to the puppies. And who can resist a puppy?
Like Miranda was like, fine, let's do it. Cut to them in bed. They're trying to train the puppy to get used to the fact that they're together as a family now.
And Miranda cannot sleep because the puppy won't stop crying and Steve is sleeping. So they get into a fight. Miranda has had it.
I guess she is also under a lot of stress because like it does look like it escalates very quickly. I know this is a show, but you know, they're my girls. I have to get into it.
And she's like, you know, I'm very tired of being the only grown up in this relationship. We're supposed to be partners. We're supposed to be equals.
And Steve does not get it. For all the good qualities that he has as Miranda's partner, he does not get it. So he's just going into a bit of a tantrum.
He's like, you're just going to give up on us. There is good stuff here. And Miranda says, not enough good.
And then she calls it. And I think she has this voiceover being like, she understood that the problem wasn't her. The problem was them.
And she's like, I don't think, you know, that this is working. This is not a rut. It's just not working.
And then Steve just holds the puppy and like looks like a puppy himself. It's like, because you don't want it to work. Miranda calls bullshit, but you know, she does say like, the baby would have been a quick fix for something that's not working.
And then it would go back to us not working. And for anyone that might be listening and thinking, hey, you know what this mediocre relationship with a bunch of issues needs to make it work? And the answer you think, a baby?
Nuh-uh. Nuh-uh. That's not the answer.
I have enough friends that have gone through relationship, wedding, moving in, baby, all and or some of the above. Bringing a baby into a relationship with problems will make those problems seem even bigger and more obvious. So don't do it.
But then Miranda gets made partner at her law firm. So at least not all is lost.
But I just want to say I feel like the writers were maybe leaving something to the imagination here, that she was prioritizing work before her partner life because maybe she could have had a baby with Steve and that would have gotten them through the
finish line. I think that the right partner will have your future values aligned with you and will make sure that you get the right support around the fact that if what you want is to make partner at the law firm because you're the breadwinner in the
relationship and you want a certain lifestyle, your partner should provide that for you. relationship and you want a certain lifestyle, your partner should provide that for you.
20:17
Charlotteʼs "The One" Theory
And this ties in with my next storyline, which is going to be Charlotte's. What do we need to know to make sure that we're dating the one?
So Charlotte's storyline is nuts because obviously she's met Trey, everything is perfect so she thinks that she loves him, that he's the one and because she thinks he's the one, she's withholding physical intimacy.
So I'm going to break this up because obviously I don't think anybody's withholding physical intimacy because they think they're the one anymore, but I will address it just later.
But I did some research into what are some things that you should keep in mind when maybe you jump the gun two weeks in or a month in and you're like, he's the one. Research shows that you can not know that fast.
The one would probably mean a long-term partner.
So in terms of how compatible are you with a person long-term, the first few weeks are supposed to show what is the compatibility in terms of chemistry, what is the attraction curiosity for one another.
Then for the next month to three months, you get to see how your partner shows up in terms of like emotional safety, consistency, like cool, maybe you really liked that he was very considerate for two weeks, but like has that remained consistent for
three months. Then the next three to six months, you get to see what's your compatibility under pressure, i.e. how do you can handle conflict, how do you handle a difference of opinion within the relationship.
And here, I want to point out, a good couple is not a couple that doesn't fight, but it's a couple that knows how to fight well, i.e.
they don't want hit under the belt, they never raise their voice, they don't do name calling, they communicate in a way that is constructive, they never lose respect for you, and you kind of like find ways to find resolution or get closure from a
conflict in a way that is fair to the both of you. And finally, long-term alignment, which ties in with Miranda and Steve, which is for the first 6 to 12 months, you get to see how your values align with your partners, do you feel secure with your
partners, are you fulfilled, and is what you want from life aligned between the two of you. Anything earlier that you feel that is giving you the feeling of like he's the one, might be projection, chemistry, or mistaking emotional intensity for
certainty. I think it's great to get that feeling. I think sometimes we get a really good, and like I think you should always listen to your intuition. You get a really good feeling like, oh, this is great.
I'm so entertained by this. I could picture myself marrying him.
And I'm sorry to say this, but I think especially women, sometimes we're like on date number five, and everything's going so well that you start picturing like, where would our wedding be? Would I take his name? How would our kids look?
How will he ask me? Let yourself emphasize, but like don't take it for granted. Let somebody earn your trust.
Let somebody show you that they deserve to be next to you for the rest of their lives. And just to wrap it up, you don't find the one in a moment. You recognize them over time.
So don't trust that within three days, two weeks, whatever Charlotte had can really show you that he's the one. They need to earn it over time. Consistency is key.
But finally, if anybody else is thinking like, oh, I think he's the one, let me hold out to see and make it special. I actually think that this is, you know, like this is really unlikely in this day and age, but just in case.
I think that physical intimacy is such a big part of a relationship. Obviously, it has to do with intimacy, compatibility, but also it's how you handle communication in anything as primitive as sex can be with your partner.
You need to cross that to see how it works. Like is he receptive to what you like in bed? Is he a good communicator?
Is he concerned about what you like, what you don't like? If you finish, you don't finish. And then if something doesn't work, how do you handle that conversation?
And I think that is key. That is something that, you know, sometimes people take for granted that like everything's right.
So, oh, this is meant to be like, no, I think you get to know more if somebody is the right person because you get to have those conversations together and you feel safe. Because again, physical intimacy, at least for me, is a big deal.
It's really important to have good communication around that if you're thinking about marrying the dude.
And finally, I really briefly want to touch upon the taxi light theory because Charlotte's gone on and on about how she thinks he's the one while they are in the bathroom stalls. And Miranda's like, that's bullshit. His light was just green.
And she talks about the fact that men are like taxis. Sometimes, you know, you can hop on, hop off and like nothing will happen because the light is red.
But then when the light is green and they're ready to settle down, the next person that hails that cab will ride that cab forever. And I did some research too on this. I actually asked some of my guy friends and they did say that is so true.
And I have seen this online. Men don't marry the love of their lives. They will marry the person that they're with that is right for them when they're ready to settle down.
But if we tie this into, Can you be with the right person at the wrong time? I don't think so. I truly believe what is meant for you won't miss you.
And sometimes I feel like the universe is protecting me by giving me the right person at the wrong time.
I do believe like the universe is showing me like, Listen, you were supposed to learn a lesson here, but that won't give you the happiness that you are capable of. But that's, you know, again.
That's my opinion.
That's my opinion. Make of it what you wish.
27:07
Samanthaʼs Aging Concerns
Finally, Samantha. And Samantha is making peace with Ajin. She receives a menopause catalog in her post.
And she is super offended. And then she realizes that her period is late. So she thinks, Oh, I might indeed be drawing up and my best years are behind me.
Which is a bitch. Because I have some friends that are going through menopause and it affects your mood. It affects your body temperature.
It affects your libido. So obviously it has a big effect on your sex life. If this is something that you guys want me to dive in, reach out to me.
I will make sure to have a great guest to talk about this. But this is something that with some hormone supplements and some of my friends try like alternative medicine also can help. But it is a bitch, especially at the beginning.
Anyway, let me know in the comments if anybody is really interested in this and I can bring an expert. I am fascinated by it because unfortunately women, because we're very complicated and we can be pregnant, etc.
There haven't been so many scientific medicines, whatever you want, done on us because we are a lot more complicated than men biologically.
The one thing that pisses me off about Samantha's storyline is that she sleeps with her cringy neighbor just because they are trying to show this is how little physical intimacy means to Samantha.
She's just like, Oh, you know, I agreed to go out with him because I guess I cannot aspire to anything younger or better now that I'm drying up and he treated me to dinner and drinks. So I guess what it's owed is this. And she looks so out of it.
It was so disturbing to watch that. The only fun fact about this is that the cringy neighbor is Patti LuPone's brother. But other than that, I think her storyline is super sad.
But also let this be a reminder to do your Kegel exercises.
29:17
Hostʼs Character Advice
And that's the episode. So just to wrap it up nicely, my advice for the girls. So for Carrie, she was my friend, and she started coming at me being like, oh my God, like I ran into Mr.
Big and he told me this. And what do you think that means? This means, cause she does say, I got everything I wanted out of him just a year too late.
I think I would tell her, it's probably just your ego. And he's creating a lot of noise around your ego, wanting to get a big cookie. But if you really want to give Aiden a shot, I think you need to quiet that noise.
It's hard, but Aiden deserves better. And in order to quiet that noise, maybe you need to say to Big, like please don't call me anymore. Maybe you can block him, just saying.
I'm not a big believer in blocking a person, but sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. Then for Miranda, I think for Miranda, rather than the baby talk, there was something about how Steve said, there's some good stuff here.
And Miranda said, not enough. I think sometimes it can be really hard to know when to step away from a relationship. For me, I wanted to maybe give her some advice as to how to know when there's not just enough good stuff and it's time to cut it.
And I think for starters, as I said, really trust your intuition. Sometimes, if you have thought about breaking up with them enough times over a short period of time, that to me, it's enough of a telltale sign.
Also, if the relationship doesn't bring you peace, but it brings you more kind of like annoyance or anxiety, also sign to break up.
If you make excuses for everything that your partner does that hurts you, like, oh, he's just that way, he didn't mean it, da-da-da. I think it's also a sign.
And finally, if you wouldn't advise a friend knowing everything that you know to stay in that relationship, gotta break up. Then Charlotte, I would tell her, girl, you need to sleep with him.
If you wanna really make this special, maybe choose a different milestone that is not him popping the question, do you want to marry me? Or marrying him to decide to sleep with him.
And to me, that, Melsen, is like, when do I feel that we have enough of a dynamic that has been consistent and respectful enough that I feel safe in the relationship and then maybe take that step and then see how that unravels?
I had Jake on, I think, two episodes ago, and it's true, I think, sex only gets better with time, so also, you're gonna have to, you know, work towards that, see how you bridge over to that place where you are satisfied with your sex life.
But yeah, sleep with him, don't wait, girl. And then finally, Samantha. I think the bigger theme here for her was, she has always been really scared of aging.
She does not want to accept it. She lies about her age. And this week, I'm recording this on April 9th, my birthday was on Monday.
There were a lot of candles on that cake. And I have to say, it's very easy, especially as a woman, I think we get a lot more of like, what are the milestones that you're supposed to have by certain ages, biological clock, etc.
And I think it's really hard to again, you know, quiet down that noise. But I have to say, I'm so proud of like what each one of those candles means in the 37 years of life that I have now. I wouldn't be able to trade any, not even the pandemic ones.
I have gone through so much. And the other thing is, if you stop focusing on maybe what you want by a certain time, and just say like, you know what, age doesn't matter. Let me focus on what it is really that I want out of life right now.
I think you're able to live life in a much better way. And I am fortunate enough to have friends from all ages, but I have quite a few friends that are a bit older than me.
And, you know, they've gone through marriages, divorces, breakups, children, children growing up, moving out. And I have to say, I don't think... Some of them have had tough times because they get to a point where dating becomes really hard.
But what I see from the women that I know that are older than me, it's awesome to get to know yourself to the point where you know a lot more when you go into the dating. So you have a lot more fun.
You don't have as much of those, like, what the fuck moments. And I don't think any of them would switch anything in their life because they still have a blast.
They still make things happen, date, discover new things, discover new tastes that they have. And I'm really excited about all of that. Like, I love having older friends because, like, I think it can seem so scary to grow old as a woman.
And having older friends has really made me feel so much at ease about it. And that's the end of the episode. So since I'm alone, I'm going to use this time to plug everything that I need.
I would love to hear what you guys are thinking about this season. I'm really working super hard and I hope you guys are enjoying it.
I'd be very curious to know if you want any kind of guest that I'm not tapping into or anyone specific that you think should come on the show. I would obviously love to have Candice Bushnell, et cetera, but I'm growing to that level of popularity.
And finally, I want to remind everyone of the new section of the podcast, He's Not Your Mr. Big, where you can ask me anything about dating, but also friends, because Sex and the City is also about friendship.
And I would love to get one of the experts that has come on the show to answer your questions. You can find the questionnaire and the show notes. I'll pop it in today.
Or if you can be bothered to do the questionnaire and also you want something a bit more private, you can DM me at WeFoundTherapyPod.
And finally, I don't know if you guys have seen, but I write a sub stack also at WeFoundTherapyPod, where I do kind of like a more vulnerable reflection of the week's episode. And I draw a bit more in of like my personal experience, my personal life.
And I really pretend to be Carrie Bradshaw when I write that. So check it out if you haven't. And besides that, thank you so much for tuning in.
It means the world to me. I'm having a lot of fun during this season. I hope it shows.
But as mentioned, please do reach out. Don't be shy. I love hearing from you.
And I can't wait to see you on our next therapy session. I love y'all. Bye.
Wasn't going to drink tonight, but I'm going to have a double.
I may have a double after this solo episode.
Bye, guys. Thank you for tuning in to another episode of And Just Like That We Found Therapy. If you loved it, follow the podcast, leave a five-star review, and send this episode to someone who needs it.
It really helps the show. And don't forget our new segment this season. He's not your Mr.
Big. If you have a love dilemma, you won't answer by one of our in-house experts. You can now submit directly through the form on my website.
Link is in the show notes. Or if you prefer to keep it personal, slide in to my DMs on Instagram at WeFoundTherapyPod. See you at our next therapy session.
I love y'all. Bye.
